So you met a guy. He’s not your usual “type.” You tend to go for the tall, dark, handsome, eyes so blue you forget your own name type of man, right? Well if not, you’re one of few. And if so, it’s time to look around.
How many guys do you know, who fit this mold that you have made a deep connection with? Now think about how many guys (total) you have made a connection with… Tons! If you’re anything like me, you love to love. It’s so much fun when you’re dating a new guy and just seeing his name on your iPhone makes your heart skip a beat. So why not let yourself feel this way more often?
Unless you’ve been living under a rock until, I don’t know, yesterday maybe, you know how the fairytales go. One day your prince charming is going to show up, whether he’s on horseback, or in the more modern version of the story a brand new fixie equipped with pegs for you or a 2014 BMW (all depending on your own personal fairytale of course). Reality check ladies, they’re called fairytales for a reason.
Stop focusing on this endless list of looks or qualities in a guy, “oh, but his horse isn’t big enough,” “his wavy hair doesn’t sparkle in the light like I thought it would” “his taste in beer sucks.” You could go on like this forever. Instead why not find someone who makes you laugh, smile and most importantly makes you weak in the knees. If you keep searching for Prince Charming you’ll never know how many amazing guys you’ve missed along the way. Maybe your true prince has been there along; you just haven’t been looking in the right places.