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May 6, 2013

Go For It Already Would You!

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So many times I hear people analyzing every action or questioning every move they make when they date. I definitely think it’s a great idea to reflect and think before you act. There are times though; that we go into what is known as analysis paralysis! When pondering what you should turns into you doing nothing…Houston we have a problem! Sometimes you just have to go for it! There are many ways to overcome this without being too careless! Here are a couple of golden rules to follow: 

Be YOURSELF: This is the first thing we’re told about life when it comes to love right? Being yourself is the foundation for a healthy relationship. Too often people try to mold themselves into what they think a partner will want from them, but in reality you need the other person to like YOU just how you are. By always being true to who you are, you never have to overanalyze your actions because they are YOU! Saying that, please remember that calling a girl 20 times within an hour, or sending a guy a whole bunch of ????? when he doesn’t respond to a text within 10 minutes IS NOT being true to who you; that is a behavior problem and can be modified by you to improve your chances at a healthy relationship! 
 
Lastly, just remember to GO FOR IT! Most people who analyze too much are doing so out of fear. Fear of doing the wrong thing. Fear of losing this connection you have established. Fear of rejection. Just remember that nothing GOOD ever came out of fear. Great rewards come from great risks! Don’t let your fear paralyze you. Follow the advice above and you’re sure to make more progress than if you just sit around wondering what if! 

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About the Author

Nicole Castrovince