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December 17, 2013

4 Tips to Make Your Long-Term Relationship Last

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Let’s say you’ve found the person that you’re supposed to spend the rest of your life with. You know there will be ups and downs and you know that through thick and thin this is the one person you want in your corner.

Being in a long-term relationship definitely has its perks, but it’s not always rainbows and sunshine. There is a lot of work that needs to be put in by both partners in order for the relationship to thrive and evolve. Here are a few things to keep in mind f you want to keep your long-term relationship alive.

Don’t Let Negative Feelings Build Up

It’s hard, especially in the beginning stages of a relationship, to express your emotions for fear of causing a fight. You may hold back on voicing your frustrations or anger because you hate confrontation or you’re unsure of how your new partner will handle emotional stress. If this person is the one for you, you must make it a point to voice your concerns. Holding a grudge or acting standoffish is not the way to go. Let your partner know what’s going on and try to work through it. If your partner is in it for the long haul as well, you can work together to right any wrongs.

Always Be Honest

There’s no point in trying to work things out unless you’re brave enough to be completely truthful with your beloved. If there’s something major that could affect your relationship, it’s best to talk it out with your partner. One small lie could snowball into a huge black doomsday cloud over your relationship. One of the best things about having a long-term partner is having someone to talk things out with who is always there for you. Holding back or lying to avoid hurt feelings or to hide something is a step in the wrong direction and compromises the whole relationship.

Make Time for Each Other

It’s not unheard of for couples to grow apart a little as time goes by. To keep that from happening to you, you need to create some special time for just the two of you. Whatever it is that you both love to do, make sure you do it often. Whether it’s taking trips to just going to the gym together, make sure that connection doesn’t stop. If you’re out of ideas, why not try something new? The joint learning experience will deepen your bond.

Discuss the Future

The idea is that long-term relationships are meant to last for years and years right? To make sure this person is the right match for you, you need to make sure your long-term goals align. Do you both want kids? Where do you both see yourself in 10 years? Take time to discuss these goals and if there needs to be some sort of negotiation, so be it. Being in a relationship definitely means compromising from time to time, but as long as both of you are okay with that, you’re on the right path to a happy and healthy long-term relationship.

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About the Author

Elisa Freese
Elisa Freese is a lifelong New Yorker with a Bachelor’s degree from SUNY New Paltz and a Master’s degree from New York University. She has always had a love for writing and now that school and homework are finally done forever, Elisa is going back to writing on a regular basis. In addition to writing, Elisa loves anything that has to do with traveling, shopping, social media and TV/movies. With her experiences, as well as the experiences of her friends and family, Elisa hopes to shed some light on the ins and outs of dating to the readers of Nouveau Dating.